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pearcult:

Ok so this post is extremely long and I put it all together for my blogs Feeling sad page but as I don’t have a huge amount of followers I realize so many people are not seeing this information so I’m posting it here too!

alternatives without harming yourself:

• holding/squeezing ice.

• splashing your face with water.
• getting a rubber band and snapping it against your skin (this could hurt, though it’s better than other ways that people usually choose to self-harm).
• take a hot shower or bath.
• eat something sour. it will take your mind of the urge. (lemon, sour lollies)
• massage where you want to self-harm.
• get a red pen or red paint and draw/paint over where you usually self-harm.

• remind yourself as to why you shouldn’t do it. (scars, harms organs, leave memories etc…)
• describe what you are feeling. (is the urge/pain in your chest, fists, legs, arms, head).

killing yourself will not help. it is not a solution.

you have your whole life ahead of you. you have so many more years that you can accomplish things in.
for example;

• having a family.
• getting married.
• to watch the sun rise.
• to watch the sun set.
• to save someone else’s life.
• finish school.
• get your dream job.
• to laugh.
• to smile.
• to go camping.
• travel to new places.
• to wake up every morning to the person you love.
• friends.
• family.
• to keep that promise you made.
• to accomplish a goal.
• to meet your idol.
• to listen to new music.
• theme parks.
• video games.
• chocolate.
• to be able to look back and say “i made it”.

what you’re going through is temporary.

in case you need to hear this:

• you are loved.
• you are wanted.
• you are needed.
• you are beautiful.
• you are handsome.
• you are important.
• you are not alone.
• you are okay.
• you are strong.
• you are worth it.
• you are smart.
• you are not a failure.
• you are useful.
• you are going to be okay.

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abuse

coping

• caring for yourself
• domestic abuse

chat rooms

• survivors chat
• fort refuge
• pandy’s

add/adhd

coping

• coping tips for attention deficit disorder
• 12 best tips for coping with adhd
• 50 tips on the management of adult attention deficit

medication

• adhd medication chart: compare drugs for add and adhd
• drugs used to treat adhd/add
• add/adhd medications: are adhd drugs right for you
• adhd medication side effects, drug types, precautions

addiction

coping and recovery

• tools of recovery: addiction coping skills
• 5 ways to deal with urges and cravings
• after rehab: 5 ways for addicts to cope
• addiction recovery
• coping with urges
• dealing with cravings

anger

coping

• strategies to keep anger at bay
• anger management: 10 tips to tame your temper
• anger management: tips and techniques
• feeling angry
• controlling anger — before it controls you
• dealing with anger
• how to cope with anger
• anger management: what works and what doesn’t
• ten commandments of anger regulation

anxiety

coping

• a list of stress relievers
• identifying and managing anxiety
• 11 assorted anxiety tips for anxiety sufferers
• how to work through feelings of isolation
• tips and tricks for dealing with anxiety
• anti-stress breathing tips
• how to stay under control with severe social anxiety
• coping with social anxiety
• managing stress
• how to help a friend with anxiety
• help guide (therapy)
• half of us
• job interviews and social anxiety
• dealing with anxiety
• coping with test anxiety
• tips for flying anxiety
• grounding techniques
• more grounding techniques
• even more grounding techniques
• mindfulness
• belly breathing
• living with anxiety
• social anxiety disorder self help tips.
• coping with flashbacks
• what anxious racing thoughts are like for me
• using a thought diary

panic attacks

• how to handle panic attacks
• exploring and coping with panic attacks
• 10 rules for coping with anxiety and panic
• tips to cope with panic attacks
• rules for coping with anxiety and panic
• understanding and coping with panic attacks
• understanding and helping panic attacks and panic disorders
• help guide (panic attacks & panic disorder)
• coping with panic attacks workbook
• rules for coping with panic
• panic attack workbook 2

medication

• help guide (anxiety medicine)
• common medications for anxiety disorders
• guidelines for medication use

bipolar disorder

coping

• bipolar disorder and self-help
• living with bipolar disorder
• how to deal with bipolar disorder without medication
• 10 ways to cope with bipolar disorder
• coping skills
• help guide (self help)
• bipolar support tumblr

medication

• help guide (bipolar disorder medication guide)
• help guide (treatment)

chat rooms

• healthfulchat
• bipolar world
• healing well

depression

coping

• how to cope with depression
• how to cope with depression 1
• natural depression treatments
• ways to deal with depression/stress
• tips to help overcome loneliness
• 10 tips on how to work through feelings of social isolation
• 8 tips to overcome loneliness
• ways to deal with depression/stress
• having a bad day?
• make a comfort box
• 10 things to do when you feel like crap
• how to find a new normal in the middle of depression
• you are not alone in the way you think you are
• reasons to stay alive
• how to stop trying to think yourself into happiness and actually arrive there
• cheer me up
• help guide (dealing with depression)
• help guide (helping someone with depression)

medication

• what to expect with antidepressants
• finding the right anti-depressant

chat room

• healthfulchat
• healing well

eating disorders

recovery

• 281 reasons to recover
• eating disorders and emotional eating test
• relapse prevention
• bloating, indigestion, & feeling too full
• why you must eat
• learning to love your body
• tips to stop restricting
• dealing with weight gain
• 10 steps to bulimia recovery workbook
• coping with exercise addiction
• tips to help with bulimia recovery
• help guide (emotional eating)
• help guide (binge eating)
• help guide (bulimia)
• help guide (helping someone with an eating disorder)
• help guide (treatment and recovery)
• stop hating your body
• body positive zone
• self care 101
• self esteem
• 30 day self esteem challenge
• developing positive self esteem
• learning-to-love-yourself
• something fishy
• ways of coping with eating disordered behaviors
• the addiction help center

friends with illness

• how to deal/talk with bipolar and depressed people
• what to do when your friend is talking about suicide
• what to do if someone you know is overdosing
• what to do if your friend is hurting themselves
• how to help someone who is suicidal
• here’s what you tell someone who wants to commit suicide
• tips for looking after someone with depression
• friends with metal illness?
• what to do when someone is suicidal
• help guide (helping someone with depression)

grief and loss

• help guide (coping with a breakup or divorce)
• help guide (coping with grief & loss)
• help guide (coping with pet loss)
• help guide (supporting a grieving person)
• help guide (the five stages of grief)

ocd

coping and treatment

• natural treatment options
• treatments for obsessive-compulsive disorder (ocd)
• additional treatment options for ocd
• residential treatment for ocd
• medications for obsessive-compulsive disorder (ocd)
• a new relationship to your obsessions
• how to find help for ocd
• ocd: exposure therapy versus medication
• cognitive therapy for ocd

chat rooms

• healthfulchat
• ocd-uk

perfectionism

coping

• how to overcome perfectionism
• learn to manage perfectionism
• how to overcome perfectionism & procrastination
• perfectionism - stress management
• 10 steps to conquer perfectionism
• perfectionists coping with failure

ptsd

coping

• coping with flashbacks
• self help strategies for ptsd
• coping with traumatic stress reactions
• post-traumatic stress - self-help guide
• understanding and coping with ptsd
• coping with ptsd

schizophrenia

coping

• living with schizophrenia
• coping with schizophrenia
• schizophrenia coping and recovery
• schizophrenia: coping with delusions and hallucinations
• paranoid schizophrenia coping and support

treatment

• an introduction to the treatment of schizophrenia
• treatment of schizophrenia
• drugs to treat schizophrenia
• common drugs and medications to treat schizophrenia
• treating schizophrenia successfully

self-harm

• cut something that’s not real skin
• half of us
• help guide
• recover your life
• self-injury outreach & support
• how to care for cuts
• resisting cutting
• 25 ways to avoid self injury and prevent self harm
• tips to help stop cutting
• 99 coping skills: things to do instead of cutting
• what to do when someone sees
• how to fade/cover scars
• alternatives for cutting 1
• alternatives for cutting 2
• alternatives for cutting 3
• alternatives for cutting 4
• alternatives for cutting 5

self-love

• how to stop putting yourself down
• self confidence
• how to improve your self-esteem
• how to be ok with yourself
• tips on self-love
• confidence
• learn to love yourself
• when told you are not pretty
• emergency compliment
• lessons for self-love

suicide

• coping with suicidal thought
• what to do when someone is suicidal
• how to help someone who is suicidal
• here’s what you tell someone who wants to commit suicide
• help guide (suicide prevention)
• help guide (dealing with suicidal thoughts & feelings)

therapy

• how to get free therapy
• getting a therapist - a brief step-by-step
• psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist or counsellor?
• 50 signs of good therapy
• 50 warning signs of questionable therapy

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the quiet place

things to do when you feel bad

when you’re not having a good day

reminders

self care suggestions

take a break

the thoughts room

90 second relaxation

the dawn room

the comfort spot

control a rainstorm

calm

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imalive

crisischat

7 cups of tea

kids help phone

positive love network

trans lifeline: 877-565-8860

depression hotline: 1-630-482-9696

suicide hotline: 1-800-784-8433

lifeline: 1-800-273-8255

trevor project: 1-866-488-7386

sexuality support: 1-800-246-7743

eating disorders hotline: 1-847-831-3438

rape and sexual assault: 1-800-656-4673

grief support: 1-650-321-5272

runaway: 1-800-843-5200, 1-800-843-5678, 1-800-621-4000

exhale: after abortion hotline/pro-voice: 1-866-439-4253

Dont forget about Crisis Text Line! 

Text HOME to 741-741

for those who might need it

the one that stuck out to me was “save someone’s life”

(via surprisebitch)